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<p class=3DMsoTitle><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>What&#8217;s Your &=
#8220;Centre&#8221;
&#8211; Gut, Heart, Or <span class=3DGramE>Head ?</span><o:p></o:p></span><=
/p>

<p class=3DMsoSubtitle>The Three Enneagram Triads<span style=3D'font-weight=
:normal;
mso-bidi-font-weight:bold'><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal align=3Dright style=3D'text-align:right'><span class=
=3DGramE><b
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight:normal'><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>b=
y</span></b></span><b
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight:normal'><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'> =
Agnes
Lau<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>

</div>

<span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia;mso-fareast-font-family=
:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-ansi-language:EN-US;mso-fareast-=
language:
ZH-CN;mso-bidi-language:AR-SA'><br clear=3Dall style=3D'page-break-before:a=
uto;
mso-break-type:section-break'>
</span>

<div class=3DSection2></div>

<span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia;mso-fareast-font-family=
:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-ansi-language:EN-US;mso-fareast-=
language:
ZH-CN;mso-bidi-language:AR-SA'><br clear=3Dall style=3D'page-break-before:a=
uto;
mso-break-type:section-break'>
</span>

<div class=3DSection3>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText>Do you have problems identifying your Ennea-gram
Personality Type?<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Maybe findi=
ng
your &#8220;Centre&#8221; or your Ennea-gram Triad first would help.</p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText>The 9 Types are not <span class=3DGramE>arbitrary,</=
span>
they fall into groups of 3 within each Triad.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Each of the 3 Triads are associate=
d with
a &#8220;Centre&#8221; or function of human intelligence:</p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'margin-left:.25in;text-indent:-.25in;mso-list=
:l0 level1 lfo2;
tab-stops:list .25in'><![if !supportLists]><span style=3D'font-size:11.0pt;
mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Wingdings;mso-fareast-font-family:Win=
gdings;
mso-bidi-font-family:Wingdings'><span style=3D'mso-list:Ignore'>w<span
style=3D'font:7.0pt "Times New Roman"'>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;=
&nbsp;
</span></span></span><![endif]><span dir=3DLTR><span style=3D'font-size:11.=
0pt;
mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>Instinctive Triad, or gut ce=
ntre
(</span></span><st1:date Year=3D"2001" Day=3D"9" Month=3D"8"><span style=3D=
'font-size:
 11.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>8/9/1</span></st1:da=
te><span
style=3D'font-size:11.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>)<=
o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'margin-left:.25in;text-indent:-.25in;mso-list=
:l0 level1 lfo2;
tab-stops:list .25in'><![if !supportLists]><span style=3D'font-size:11.0pt;
mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Wingdings;mso-fareast-font-family:Win=
gdings;
mso-bidi-font-family:Wingdings'><span style=3D'mso-list:Ignore'>w<span
style=3D'font:7.0pt "Times New Roman"'>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;=
&nbsp;
</span></span></span><![endif]><span dir=3DLTR><span style=3D'font-size:11.=
0pt;
mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>Feeling Triad, or heart cent=
re (</span></span><st1:date
Year=3D"2004" Day=3D"3" Month=3D"2"><span style=3D'font-size:11.0pt;mso-bid=
i-font-size:
 10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>2/3/4</span></st1:date><span style=3D'font-siz=
e:
11.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>)<o:p></o:p></span></=
p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'margin-left:.25in;text-indent:-.25in;mso-list=
:l0 level1 lfo2;
tab-stops:list .25in'><![if !supportLists]><span style=3D'font-size:11.0pt;
mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Wingdings;mso-fareast-font-family:Win=
gdings;
mso-bidi-font-family:Wingdings'><span style=3D'mso-list:Ignore'>w<span
style=3D'font:7.0pt "Times New Roman"'>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;=
&nbsp;
</span></span></span><![endif]><span dir=3DLTR><span style=3D'font-size:11.=
0pt;
mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>Thinking Triad, or head cent=
re (</span></span><st1:date
Year=3D"2007" Day=3D"6" Month=3D"5"><span style=3D'font-size:11.0pt;mso-bid=
i-font-size:
 10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>5/6/7</span></st1:date><span style=3D'font-siz=
e:
11.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>)<o:p></o:p></span></=
p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText>The Triads represent the three main clusters of issu=
es and
defenses we have, and reveal the principal ways we contract our awareness a=
nd
limit ourselves.</p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-size:12.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:10.=
0pt;
font-family:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-size:12.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:10.=
0pt;
font-family:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><b style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight:normal'><u><span
style=3D'font-size:12.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>The
Instinctive Triad (</span></u></b><st1:date Year=3D"2001" Day=3D"9" Month=
=3D"8"><b
 style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight:normal'><u><span style=3D'font-size:12.0pt;
 mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>8/9/1</span></u></b></st1:d=
ate><b
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight:normal'><u><span style=3D'font-size:12.0pt;
mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>)<o:p></o:p></span></u></b><=
/p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>Concerns:<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Resistance &amp; Control of the <o=
:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-indent:.5in'><span style=3D'font-family:=
Georgia'><span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp;</span><span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>Environment<o:p></o:p></span>=
</p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>Issues:<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Aggression &amp; Repression<o:p></=
o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>Seeks:<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Autonomy<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>Underlying Feeling=
:<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Rage<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p><=
/span></p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText>The Instinctive Triad is concerned with the instinct=
s of
the body, basic life function and survival.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span><span class=3DGramE>The ability to=
 balance
their instinctual energy, their vitality and life force.</span> <st1:date
Year=3D"2001" Day=3D"9" Month=3D"8">8/9/1s</st1:date> employ ego boundaries=
 in an attempt
to use their will to affect the world without being affected by it.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>That is, they resist being influen=
ced by
current reality, becoming self-forgetting or defensively resisting the
influence of others. <span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp;</span>They are
hooked by the <i style=3D'mso-bidi-font-style:normal'>present</i>,
perceptually.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span></p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText>When they are healthy, they relate to their environm=
ent
and to others exceptionally well, with a deep wisdom from within.</p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText><span style=3D'font-size:12.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:1=
0.0pt'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>

<h1><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:11.0pt'>Eights &#821=
1; The
Challenger<o:p></o:p></span></h1>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText>[<i style=3D'mso-bidi-font-style:normal'>Overexpress=
es
instinctual energy, using too much energy for the matter at hand</i>]</p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText>Focus of attention and energy is directed outward ag=
ainst
the environment, so that nothing can get too close and control or hurt them=
.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They repress their vulnerability a=
nd
tenderness.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They have tremend=
ous
vitality and a keen intuition.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </spa=
n>They
are powerful and dominant, and not afraid to act out their rage.</p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>

<h1><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:11.0pt'>Nines &#8211=
; The Peacemaker<o:p></o:p></span></h1>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText>[<i style=3D'mso-bidi-font-style:normal'>Out of touc=
h with
instinctual energy, zest for life</i>]</p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText>Energy is directed against both inward and outward &=
#8220;threats&#8221;.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They do not want certain feelings =
and
states to disturb their peace, and at the same time they do not want to be
hurt.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They repress their inst=
incts
and their responses become &#8220;frozen&#8221;, resulting in apathy and lo=
ss
of vitality.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They have a
centeredness that enables them to remain <span class=3DGramE>calm</span>.<s=
pan
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They are accommodating and often d=
eny
their rage.</p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></p>

<h1><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:11.0pt'>Ones &#8211;=
 The Reformer<o:p></o:p></span></h1>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText>[<i style=3D'mso-bidi-font-style:normal'>Underexpres=
ses instinctual
energy, by trying to control it</i>]</p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText>Energy is directed inward against their internal imp=
ulses,
trying to keep them from getting into consciousness.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>These are aspects which they do not
trust or approve of, and they suppress these powerful instinctive drives and
emotions.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They seek perfectio=
n, and
see anger as a character flaw and repress their rage.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They are aggressively self-critica=
l, and
become tense and rigid from inner conflict.</p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p><=
/span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p><=
/span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><b style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight:normal'><u><span
style=3D'font-size:12.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>Th=
e Feeling
Triad (</span></u></b><st1:date Year=3D"2004" Day=3D"3" Month=3D"2"><b
 style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight:normal'><u><span style=3D'font-size:12.0pt;
 mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>2/3/4</span></u></b></st1:d=
ate><b
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight:normal'><u><span style=3D'font-size:12.0pt;
mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>)<o:p></o:p></span></u></b><=
/p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>Concerns:<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Love of False Self &amp; Self-Imag=
e<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>Issues:<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Identity &amp; Hostility<o:p></o:p=
></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>Seeks:<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Attention<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>Underlying Feeling=
:<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Shame<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p><=
/span></p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText2><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:=
9.0pt'>The
Feeling Triad is concerned with developing a self-image and becoming identi=
fied
with it.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They use it to attra=
ct
love, attention, approval, and a sense of value.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>As they focus on how others see th=
em,
they could get out of touch with their real feelings.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They could lack a proper love of
self.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Their two major themes
involve identity issues (&#8220;Who am I?&#8221;) and problems with hostili=
ty (&#8220;I
hate you for not loving me in the way I want!&#8221;).<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They are hooked by the <i
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-style:normal'>past</i>, emotionally.<o:p></o:p></spa=
n></p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText2><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:=
9.0pt'>When
they are healthy, their feelings are the focus of what is admirable about t=
heir
<span class=3DGramE>personalities.,</span> becoming highly valued for their
interpersonal qualities.<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText2><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:=
9.0pt'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>

<h2>Twos &#8211; The Helper</h2>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText2><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:=
9.0pt'>[<i
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-style:normal'>Overexpresses feelings, expressing only
positive feelings, repressing the rest</i>]<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText2><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:=
9.0pt'>Self-image
is presented outwardly to others, looking for positive responses to their
friendliness, helpfulness to build up self-esteem.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They are interested in playing the=
 role
of nurturer, and try to present a loving image.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They have difficulty knowing what =
their
own feelings are telling them.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </spa=
n>They
frequently feel unappreciated, and yet must conceal the hostile feelings th=
is
generates.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They become ultrag=
ood to
avoid feeling shame.<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText2><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:=
9.0pt'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>

<h2>Threes &#8211; The Achiever</h2>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText2><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:=
9.0pt'>[<i
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-style:normal'>Out of touch with real feelings</i>]<o=
:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText2><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:=
9.0pt'>Self-image
is presented both to self and to others.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&n=
bsp;
</span>They seek value through accomplishment, trying to become a valuable
person.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They want to be seen =
in a
good light, according to socially agreed-upon norms.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They need positive affirmation from
people, and also attempt to create and sustain an internal picture of
themselves, engaging in internal &#8220;self-talk.&#8221;<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They become outstanding in perform=
ance
and achievements to avoid feeling shame.<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText2><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:=
9.0pt'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>

<h2>Fours &#8211; The Individualist</h2>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText2><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:=
9.0pt'>[<i
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-style:normal'>Painfully self-conscious, underexpress=
es
feelings by withholding direct expression</i>]<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoBodyText2><span style=3D'font-size:10.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:=
9.0pt'>Self-image
is presented inwardly to themselves, tending to create and maintain moods
rather than feel current feelings.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp;
</span>They need to be &#8220;different&#8221;, original, and often feel
estranged from others.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They h=
ave a
strong need to express themselves.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; <=
/span>Less
healthy Fours see themselves as victims and prisoners of their pasts.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They dramatize their losses and hu=
rts to
avoid feelings of shame.<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p><=
/span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p><=
/span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><b style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight:normal'><u><span
style=3D'font-size:12.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>Th=
e Thinking
Triad (</span></u></b><st1:date Year=3D"2007" Day=3D"6" Month=3D"5"><b
 style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight:normal'><u><span style=3D'font-size:12.0pt;
 mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>5/6/7</span></u></b></st1:d=
ate><b
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight:normal'><u><span style=3D'font-size:12.0pt;
mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'>)<o:p></o:p></span></u></b><=
/p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>Concerns:<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Strategies &amp; Beliefs<o:p></o:p=
></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>Issues:<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Insecurity &amp; Anxiety<o:p></o:p=
></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>Seeks:<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Security<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'>Underlying Feeling=
:<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Fear<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal><span style=3D'font-family:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p><=
/span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'>The
Thinking Triad is concerned with finding a sense of inner guidance and
support.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They are future-orie=
nted,
asking, &#8220;What&#8217;s going to happen to me?&#8221;<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They have difficulty making decisi=
ons
and determining how to move into the future.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They are hooked by the <i
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-style:normal'>future</i>, behaviorally.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>Their mind is an inner chatterbox,=
 forever
coming up with strategies, reacting to fear.<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'>When
they are healthy, they have remarkable insights, ideas, ability to understa=
nd
things, and are profoundly perceptive.<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>

<h3>Fives &#8211; The Investigator</h3>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'>[<i
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-style:normal'>Overexpresses thinking, mentally inten=
se</i>]<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'>Flee
<span class=3DGramE>inward,</span> believing that the only safe place is in=
 their
minds.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They retreat until they
learn something or master a skill that would allow them to come out of hidi=
ng.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They are convinced that support and
guidance are not available or reliable, and that they must &#8220;go it alo=
ne.&#8221;<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They rely on their own resources, =
and
find safety in knowledge and/or withdrawing.<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>

<h3>Sixes &#8211; The Loyalist</h3>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'>[<i
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-style:normal'>Out of touch with inner guidance</i>]<=
o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'>Flee
inward to avoid external threats and outward to avoid internal fears.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They bounce around a reactive cycl=
e.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They look for guidance from others,
ironically to become independent.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp;
</span>They seek approval from authority <span class=3DGramE>figures,</span=
> or/then
they rebel against authority to prove their independence.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They try to control their fear thr=
ough vigilance.
<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp;</span>When healthy, they have the a=
bility
to foresee potential problems.<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>

<h3>Sevens &#8211; The Enthusiast</h3>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'>[<i
style=3D'mso-bidi-font-style:normal'>Underexpresses thinking, thinking too =
quickly
without ramifications of their actions</i>]<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'>Flee
outward to avoid aspects of their inner world.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They charge into life, appearing
courageous and adventurous.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>T=
hey&#8217;re
escaping the fear of being trapped in emotional pain, grief, and anxiety.<s=
pan
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They keep active and their minds
occupied so that underlying anxieties and hurts will not surface.<span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>They respond to lack of guidance by
trying everything, going after what they think will give satisfaction and
security.<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-size:=
12.0pt;
mso-bidi-font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'>While
you may be able to communicate better with people in your Triad, relationsh=
ips
with people from other Triads can help bring elements of your personality i=
nto
balance.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </span>One of the Enneagram=
&#8217;s
goals is to teach you to observe and harmonize all three centres within you=
.<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>

<p class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'text-align:justify'><span style=3D'font-famil=
y:Georgia'>The
first reason to study the Enneagram is to develop a working relation with <=
span
class=3DGramE>yourself</span>.<span style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'>&nbsp; </spa=
n>The
second reason is to be able to understand people as they see themselves, and
not how you see them.<o:p></o:p></span></p>

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